I already wrote a shortly about this in this bar/club game post, but now I’m writing a little bit more about it.
On Tinder/online dating, the competition is huge. An average girl can get hundreds of messages off guys. This makes it hard to separate from others.
On bars thought, there is not much of men, and most of them are afraid to approach. So that makes the competition already easier, as the ratio of guys hitting on one girls is hundred times smaller on bar than on Tinder.
More things that matter than just looks
Looks plays a huge role on Tinder game, as it’s the only thing you can demonstrate. Jokes, text game, chatting. All of that shit plays minor role when using Tinder.
Opposite in real lfe gaming. When you approach a new girls, you can immediately demonstrate an attractive qualities you can’t on online.
Your bodylanguage, tone of voice, facial expressions.
Low inhibition and playful behavior. These immediately makes a picture of yourself a social guy with high status girls around him.
It’s more a status game in real life. To demonstrate all your strengths, having a small talk and indicate your social skills.
There can be a huge surprise when you have talked with cute girl on Tinder, and when you set up a date and meet, she may be a totally different looking than on her pics.
This is not a problem irl when you can already sift girls you aren’t attracted into. 1+ for night game.
No spending time on dates
You can spend a lot of time and energy for firstly chatting with girl on Tinder, then setting up a date. And finally when she appears, her personality is nothing like you thought it was on online.
Irl again, you can see immediately these kinds of aspects.
Also, on clubs you don’t need to spend lot of time for getting phone numbers, text gaming, and finally setting up dates which can be flaked and not getting anywhere.
On bars it’s all or nothing mentality. You get quick lays without spending a lot of time and energy for dating.
Going alone bars kills your social anxiety and greatly increases social skills
By sitting at home and not interacting with real people this wont happen.
If you go alone to bar, and force yourself to have small talk with people, I will guarantee that this will kill you social anxiety and highly boosts your confidence. More detailed post about this here, where I talk about my own experience by killing a social anxiety by forcing myself out of my comfort zone.
Tinder waiting, bars not
You know the feeling when it takes a shitloads of time to girl to reply on your message?
It’s frustrating as f#@k.
On bar thought, no waiting. All the interaction is at this moment, and you can already see if is’ going somewhere.