Fleshlight Review

When I first time heard about the fleshlight a long time ago, I became a curious.

I read people experiences with it, hearing it feels like a real pussy or even better. These kind of reviews sounds too good to be true, sounds like paid reviews. I didn’t believe it could be possible, but I was still curious enough to try one.

So I bought one. For my own pleasure. And for training the stamina for lasting longer in bed. I always buy something that can be used for self-improvement.

My experience

I went to sex shop and it was awkward as fuck experience for me to go there. At the time I hadn’t got over my shyness yet so I was sweating there. Fortunately everything went fine. My voice was shaking when the cashier was asking if I need anything else, but I survived.

First thing when I returned home with brand new Fleshlight and huge tube of lube, was going to shower. Not for using the Fleshlight, but because of sweating more than running a maraton due the nervousness.

The next thing was of course taking the action and unbox the Fleshlight. I was so excited. With shaky hands I rolled the cap and took it on my hands, reading the instructions at the same time.

It said you should not warm it up on microwave, but in warm water example. I was careful and didn’t want to risk it, so I filled a bucket with warm water and put the Fleshlight there. After warming up, was time to test if it was scam or not.

Took some lube and started jerking off with it. I remember instantly thinking this was a great investment.

A warm, soft, tight tube itching euphorically my cock. The material used in it is a very good. Wins masturbating easily.

Does it feels like a real pussy? Not, but the physical feeling is pretty accurate almost. The Fleshlight feels great. An excellent. I highly recommend it.

Training the stamina

For training your endurance to last longer in bed, the Fleshlight is a killer.

The intense feeling, especially first times, makes it hard to resist the cumming. Train edging with this and your stamina in bed will skyrocket. If you are not aware of the term, it means masturbating to the point you are almost ejaculating and then stopping. Then repeating. By training this you can easily control your orgasm and not pre-ejaculate when it’s time for real sex.

It’s good to ejaculate at the end of your stamina training, so you won’t get blueballs.

There are always cons

As everything, the Fleshligh has it cons.

As great as it feels, there is a process like warming up and cleaning. None likes cleaning.

Fortunately cleaning the Fleshligh is not a big deal, as you can wash it with water in sink. Don’t use soup, water is enough. Then you need to let it dry.

Also the duration of the warmness is not very long. You need to rewarm it pretty soon if you are taking a longer sessions.

So the biggest con in the Fleshlight is the duration of time it takes to use it.

The Conclusion


  • Wins masturbating easily.
  • Almost feels like a real pussy.
  • No pressures, you can only focus on your own pleasure.
  • Good way to train your stamina to last longer in bed.
  • Last long, as long as you clean and dry it properly.


  • The process of the use. Warming it up, cleaning, drying.
  • Pretty quick cool down.

Would it be worth to buy one? Yes, I would recommend based on my own experience. Especially if you are having trouble to last in bed, Fleshlight is a good way to train your endurance safely alone.

Remember to buy some lube besides it, you’ll need it.

How to retain woman’s interest after first time of having sex if you would like to meet her again

Let’s go through a steps about what to do in situation where you have a sex first time with new cool girl you would like to meet again. Not leaving it only as a one night stand, but retaining her interest and maybe building a relationship.

The first time when your p is in her v is the most critical point of how things will continue after this. Will she be more interested in you? Or will she lose the interest? Is she willing to meet you again?

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How to build courage to approach women with zero fear and not caring about rejections – Complete Guide

So here’s is the guide how you can build a hard core of inner confidence of not giving a f@#k about rejections and how to approach women confidently with no fear.

As you now know my background, I started this journey by going alone to bars. That put me really uncomfortable situations and wasn’t probably best way to start this. But the real improvement when I got completely rid of my approach anxiety happened after I started applying these drills in this method on daytime. Continue reading “How to build courage to approach women with zero fear and not caring about rejections – Complete Guide”

How to meet girls if you cant drink alcohol and go to bars or don’t want to use Tinder?

If you are like me, whose body can’t stand alcohol, the effort of going bars can be too big. However I used to go lot of bars by being sober, I still managed to find a ways to get girls besides bar scene or Tinder. I’m going through in this post ways you can meet girls if you cant drink alcohol.

Where to meet women if it’s not bars or clubs?

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How to get multiple new girls every week

By doing this you can get multiple new girls weekly.

  1. Firstly install Tinder if you already don’t have it. Get good pictures, if you have ripped abs show off them. Try to get numbers and setup dates. Don’t worry if you don’t get much. The best way to get girls is below, use Tinder just besides them, don’t focus too much it.
  2. On weekdays, if you already haven’t setup dates with possible Tinder girls, go to approach girls on daytime. Example on shopping malls or coffee shops. This may sound scary, but don’t worry. Start it slow, by talking example one girl a day and you’ll get better and confident around girls. Here is step by step guide how you can courage to approach and get phone numbers -> Complete Cold-approaching Guide. Try to get instant dates with girls you pick up, I prefer going to pub and taking a beer. Coffee date is good though, but best success I have had with pubs. These usually ends up in sex on first date. If you are not into one nights stands but want to date and know girl better, then coffee date is good. Here is also example guide how you can go for sex on first date ->How to be playful and escalate on dates.
  3. On weekends. Friday, Saturday. Maybe also on Sunday. It’s possible to get at least one girl with every night of them if you go to bars or clubs. On the daytime you can still have dates, but if they aren’t going anywhere, go to bars on night. You don’t need to get wasted and drink alcohol. I prefer going alone, it’s best way to get girls. It may sound scary, I almost shit on my pants when I first started doing it. But getting enough out of comfort zone and doing it again and again, I got good at it. I could confidently go talk with group of girls picking up them. Here is guide how you can get laid on bars or clubs -> How to pickup girls at club/bar?

This should be common sense, but take care of your looks besides doing methods above. Hit the gym if you already don’t. Get ripped abs (This alone makes it much more easily to get girls). Haircut that suits you. Beard/stubble if you can grow one. The point is, the better you look, the better chances you have to get girls. How the Dating Game works? -> this post explains how the “dating game” works and what you need to do to get best results on dating.

The one thing that is must to do, is actually go out there and talk with girls. To break your comfort zone. You’ll little by little become more confident around girls, and when you do methods above you get experience which makes you more confident and grants more success. You’ll in time get lot of girls if you just go for it. .

Why going to gym and getting good body alone won’t get you automatically girls?

When I was younger, I had much better body than I have now. I trained like beast back then, going to gym almost everyday and packing a good amount of mass while staying at pretty low fat percentage.

I had a great body, but I still got zero experience with girls.

Compared to nowadays when I’m not as good shape as I used to be, I’m complete opposite of I used to be when it goes to girls.

Back then I thought if I got a great body, girls would approach me and take an initiative. It never happened. And I got depressed about it, as I saw a many guys who never went to gym having girlfriends.

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13 Ways To Improve Your Social Skills

Social skill is a skill like playing guitar. It can be learned. It can be improved, which requires doing it again and again.

I’m not extrovert naturally myself. I’m not high energy guy always having a need to say something. I’m very calm. But the difference how I used to be, is not what I say, but how I behave. The tone of voice, body language, facial expressions. Even I’m not social butterfly and the center of the party, I’m not shy anymore. And it’s the first thing to get over to improve social skills.

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How the Dating Game works?

This post is a chapter from eBook, where I'm going to explain detailed step by step method how to go from approaching to sex. Read more about eBook here.

It’s always the numbers game.

Women rarely takes an initiative as they already get approached by guys all the time. Either in real life or on social media, so they won’t bother to take an action. They won’t take the risk to get rejected.

So you need to take an action and approach. The more you approach, the more you have chances to get laid. You just need to be in the right place at right time. The probability of being there will raise the more you approach.

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Bruce Lee’s 2×6 Chest Workout, secret for a massive chest?

Bruce Lee was a such super human. He was training so extremely it’s miracle how far human limits can get. My favorite quote of his:

“If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.”

Besides his passion for ultimate training lifestyle, he also had an insane knowledge of training. Continue reading “Bruce Lee’s 2×6 Chest Workout, secret for a massive chest?”

Finding a niche will get you girls

Women love guys who are little unique and stand out of other’s.

Trends are built by men finding a niche that makes them stand out of the majority, following a huge attention of girls.

Example, few years ago rarely none had beards. Guys with beards were mysterious and of course got more attention of girls back then than nowadays, when every other guy is trying to grow a beard to be more attractive. Beard/stubble is of course attractive, it’s a sign of masculinity. But back then, besides a beard, they got an instant status boost by being this mysterious guy. Girls would sense that this is a unique guy and must have attention of other girls. Nowadays the beard game is little bit over saturated, and the status boost of being unique by having a beard won’t have effect. It can only boost looks.  Continue reading “Finding a niche will get you girls”