Negative thoughts. They are things that won’t bring anything in your table, but will drain away your energy and prevents you to succeed on every aspect of your life.
Feeling of Envy. It means someone has something you desire but you haven’t acquired. And you probably think you can’t acquire.
If you spent all your time and energy being jealous, you are only damaging yourself.
Continue reading “How to get over the Jealousy and feeling of Envy?Eliminating the Negative thoughts.”
a philosophy for me to be the boss of my own. The goal is to not be
follower of the pack, the society and let my happiness being
dependent by other’s, but having my happiness only being dependant
of my own actions.
This doesn’t mean
being a thug or outlaw. The goal is to:
Continue reading “Lonewolf Mentality? Not being a Loner but being the Boss of Your Own”
- Acquire as much money or great career to not be dependent on the rat race and having fate as wage slave on the dead end job.
- Acquire demeanor that I can do things happily alone that normally people wouldn’t. Like going alone to bars, movies etc. In other words, being not dependent on schedules but having my own clock to do whatever I want whenever I want.
So here’s is the guide how you can build a hard core of inner confidence of not giving a f@#k about rejections and how to approach women confidently with no fear.
As you now know my background, I started this journey by going alone to bars. That put me really uncomfortable situations and wasn’t probably best way to start this. But the real improvement when I got completely rid of my approach anxiety happened after I started applying these drills in this method on daytime. Continue reading “How to build courage to approach women with zero fear and not caring about rejections – Complete Guide”
I used to be way too shy in the past and over analyze too much what other people think.
I would say the trait was: “Give too much fuck’s”.
I had dreams I wanted to go for, but I was afraid of how other’s would judge me.
I did things I wouldn’t wanted to do, but did because I care too much about haters.
This trait did limit so much of my earlier life.
After overcoming it, I was reborn.
A complete new life appeared to me. All the restrictions my mind had stop me to do, where now open.
If you are suffering this trait too, I highly recommend to put effort to get over this mindset. It really can get you to success and live the life you really want.
‘I don’t give a f@#k attitude’, or idgf-attitude, this is what I wanted to talk about today. How to acquire it, how to get rid of overthinking about what other people think. How to became your own boss who do what the f@#k he want to do.
Continue reading “How to not care about what others think (Acquiring I don’t give a f attitude)”
UPDATE! This post is more detailed how to get over the fear of approaching. The original Article (below) is more theory and my story of getting over the social anxiety.
Btw this article is one of the first articles I wrote when I started blogging, so the writing style of my newer content might be little different 🙂
Anyway, the original Article is below:
Gaining confidence is simple but not easy. You’ve probably already heard this, but it’s this kind of cycle: you do something -> you succeed -> you acquire bit of confidence -> you do it again with better result due to earlier gained confidence -> you succeed even more and get more confidence.
This is something that I remember was taught on school, but I never believed on that crap and applied it. Like giving a presentation in front of class, how would kid full of insecurity get a success by failing completely in front of class speaking with shaky voice, sweating and hands shaking like crazy. I never did. All it did just made it worse, failing made me more paranoid and insecure for next presentation. Continue reading “How to gain confidence and break the approach anxiety?”