Let’s go through a steps about what to do in situation where you have a sex first time with new cool girl you would like to meet again. Not leaving it only as a one night stand, but retaining her interest and maybe building a relationship.
The first time when your p is in her v is the most critical point of how things will continue after this. Will she be more interested in you? Or will she lose the interest? Is she willing to meet you again?
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So here’s is the guide how you can build a hard core of inner confidence of not giving a f@#k about rejections and how to approach women confidently with no fear.
As you now know my background, I started this journey by going alone to bars. That put me really uncomfortable situations and wasn’t probably best way to start this. But the real improvement when I got completely rid of my approach anxiety happened after I started applying these drills in this method on daytime. Continue reading “How to build courage to approach women with zero fear and not caring about rejections – Complete Guide”
If you are like me, whose body can’t stand alcohol, the effort of going bars can be too big. However I used to go lot of bars by being sober, I still managed to find a ways to get girls besides bar scene or Tinder. I’m going through in this post ways you can meet girls if you cant drink alcohol.
Where to meet women if it’s not bars or clubs?
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By doing this you can get multiple new girls weekly.
- Firstly install Tinder if you already don’t have it. Get good pictures, if you have ripped abs show off them. Try to get numbers and setup dates. Don’t worry if you don’t get much. The best way to get girls is below, use Tinder just besides them, don’t focus too much it.
- On weekdays, if you already haven’t setup dates with possible Tinder girls, go to approach girls on daytime. Example on shopping malls or coffee shops. This may sound scary, but don’t worry. Start it slow, by talking example one girl a day and you’ll get better and confident around girls. Here is step by step guide how you can courage to approach and get phone numbers -> Complete Cold-approaching Guide. Try to get instant dates with girls you pick up, I prefer going to pub and taking a beer. Coffee date is good though, but best success I have had with pubs. These usually ends up in sex on first date. If you are not into one nights stands but want to date and know girl better, then coffee date is good. Here is also example guide how you can go for sex on first date ->How to be playful and escalate on dates.
- On weekends. Friday, Saturday. Maybe also on Sunday. It’s possible to get at least one girl with every night of them if you go to bars or clubs. On the daytime you can still have dates, but if they aren’t going anywhere, go to bars on night. You don’t need to get wasted and drink alcohol. I prefer going alone, it’s best way to get girls. It may sound scary, I almost shit on my pants when I first started doing it. But getting enough out of comfort zone and doing it again and again, I got good at it. I could confidently go talk with group of girls picking up them. Here is guide how you can get laid on bars or clubs -> How to pickup girls at club/bar?
This should be common sense, but take care of your looks besides doing methods above. Hit the gym if you already don’t. Get ripped abs (This alone makes it much more easily to get girls). Haircut that suits you. Beard/stubble if you can grow one. The point is, the better you look, the better chances you have to get girls. How the Dating Game works? -> this post explains how the “dating game” works and what you need to do to get best results on dating.
The one thing that is must to do, is actually go out there and talk with girls. To break your comfort zone. You’ll little by little become more confident around girls, and when you do methods above you get experience which makes you more confident and grants more success. You’ll in time get lot of girls if you just go for it. .
Social skill is a skill like playing guitar. It can be learned. It can be improved, which requires doing it again and again.
I’m not extrovert naturally myself. I’m not high energy guy always having a need to say something. I’m very calm. But the difference how I used to be, is not what I say, but how I behave. The tone of voice, body language, facial expressions. Even I’m not social butterfly and the center of the party, I’m not shy anymore. And it’s the first thing to get over to improve social skills.
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This post is a chapter from eBook, where I'm going to explain detailed step by step method how to go from approaching to sex. Read more about eBook here.
It’s always the numbers game.
Women rarely takes an initiative as they already get approached by guys all the time. Either in real life or on social media, so they won’t bother to take an action. They won’t take the risk to get rejected.
So you need to take an action and approach. The more you approach, the more you have chances to get laid. You just need to be in the right place at right time. The probability of being there will raise the more you approach.
Continue reading “How the Dating Game works?”
Women love guys who are little unique and stand out of other’s.
Trends are built by men finding a niche that makes them stand out of the majority, following a huge attention of girls.
Example, few years ago rarely none had beards. Guys with beards were mysterious and of course got more attention of girls back then than nowadays, when every other guy is trying to grow a beard to be more attractive. Beard/stubble is of course attractive, it’s a sign of masculinity. But back then, besides a beard, they got an instant status boost by being this mysterious guy. Girls would sense that this is a unique guy and must have attention of other girls. Nowadays the beard game is little bit over saturated, and the status boost of being unique by having a beard won’t have effect. It can only boost looks. Continue reading “Finding a niche will get you girls”
The more F@#ks you give, the less Pussy you get
The quote above tells it all.
Desperation. This one trait that can easily ruin your chances even you got all the other traits good. Nothing is more turn off to women than extremely desperate man. This is the thing I talked about losing virginity to be the hardest lay one have to achieve, due the desperation of getting it done.
This is why guys who already have had a rich sex life are getting it easy. They have developed a mindset of not putting pussy on pedestal anymore after lots of experience. When you are not giving attention to women, she will chase you even more. Continue reading “Desperation, the Attraction Killer”
If you haven’t lost your virginity yet, read this.
When you have zero experience with women, you have minimal confidence due to lack of success/experience which reflects on your upcoming experiences. You can fake it till you make it, but the vibe of zero experience will appear subconsciously around women.
This is the hardest part you need to get over. For this point it’s huge uphill battle. After you make it, every lay will be easier to get afterwards. Actually lay after lay you get it easier. It’s like women’s sixth sense of knowing you are getting girls. Continue reading “Losing your virginity is the hardest lay you need to achieve”
I already wrote a shortly about this in this bar/club game post, but now I’m writing a little bit more about it.
On Tinder/online dating, the competition is huge. An average girl can get hundreds of messages off guys. This makes it hard to separate from others.
On bars thought, there is not much of men, and most of them are afraid to approach. So that makes the competition already easier, as the ratio of guys hitting on one girls is hundred times smaller on bar than on Tinder. Continue reading “6 reasons why bars are better place to get girls than Tinder”