Lone wolf mentality is an alpha male trait if you play your cards right. I’m not talking about a being a loner who is avoiding talking with other people. What I’m meaning, is that you can easily expand your social circle and get people to be interested to hangout with you, getting new mates and so. Mentality what I’m talking about is to get enough courage to do things you really want to do without caring what other people think. In other words “I don’t give a fuck attitude”. Lone wolf mentality is more like metaphor for that, surviving alone without requiring the help of pack.
It goes all the way based on your confidence. When you really act confident and do whatever you want to do, without needing other people with you, people are starting to follow you. When you really believe in what you are doing, take all the responsible for yourself, people believe in you.
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This is the situation you want to avoid at all cost.
Or let’s say, there are few types of friendzones:
The situation #1: You have known the girl years with no intend for anything sexual, just having her as buddy. Situation #2: You have known the girl years and you are interested in her in sexual manner, but she doesn’t feel the same. Situation #3: You have started dating a complete new girl you’ve never known before, example you picked her up on tinder. You’ve been on date and she says: “You are a very nice guy, but I think we should just be friends”. Continue reading “How to get out of friendzone?”
You have successfully picked up a girl, got her phone number, texting her. Everything is going well, she’s into you and the future looks bright. Then suddenly she goes no contact. A full radio silence. She’s not answering anymore to your messages.
In this post I’m going to go through how to deal when she is not answering anymore on you messages/phone calls, a flaking. Continue reading “A girl doesn’t answer on my messages anymore. What to do? (How to deal with flakes)”
I wasted myself a lot of time for improving the game, without getting laid. I broke the approach anxiety, greatly improved my social skills and became smooth and playful around girls. Dominant, good bodylanguage. Overall outgoing and good interacting with women, but I was still struggling to get laid. I never did. I thought that I NEED to have a toptier game to get access on sex. Or after I had got my game there, I wouldn’t have to put anymore effort on this and will have girls drooling over me.
Also one reason that was stopping me was reading about pickup stuff and it’s complicated patterns that you should go dates before sex, I hadn’t Continue reading “Why you should aim for getting laid instead of improving a ‘game’”
Your demeanor says more about you than your words. If you are looking down, having a negative posture and looking like you are not relaxed, people can sense that you are not feeling comfortable. This can be seen on interactions, not only with women, but also with men.
When you have more open, relaxed body language, people are responding better for anything you do. By keeping your hands crossed and looking like you are protecting yourself the opponent you are talking with will think you are not on the mood or you are feeling uncomfortable to talk with him/her. Continue reading “The power of bodylanguage”
How to Cold-Approach?
If you are not aware of the term cold approaching, it means approaching a girl you’ve never talked before and she hasn’t shown any sign of interest on you before. Warm approaching instead means approaching a girl you have had some connection before.
In this post we are going through how to effectively cold-approach a girl and possible get her back to your place for sex.
I myself started this all with cold approaching. It was before Tinder existed, so cold approaching was my way to go. Started on clubs and bars, afterwards went on streets and shopping malls. Clubs/bars are still the best place Continue reading “Complete Cold-approaching Guide”
At the beginning when I didn’t have idea how to pickup girls, I went on clubs binge drinking and getting wasted in hope of getting courage to talk to girls. Or that was the step 2, which I hardly or never acquired. The step 1 was to get girls approach me so I could go step 2. Even I was wasted and lowered my inhibitons via shitloads of booze, I hadn’t courage to approach girls.
After I killed my approach anxiety and started to go talk with girls, I was sober at the first. For long time. I avoided alcohol for health issues. Anyway, it was a good feeling of not needing alcohol and still going talking with girls smoothly and having fun with them. Continue reading “Picking up girls while sober or wasted?”
After tinder and other dating apps appeared on smarphones, they increased dramatically online dating scene. It was just easy to get straight off your phone to get contact of opposite sex and skip some traditional dating principles. Tinder was for sure a game changer.
As for daygame, which is mostly picking up phonenumbers that you can turn to dates, on Tinder you don’t have to do cold approaching and can easily get more and faster phonenumbers.
To the point, is there a reason to daygame anymore if you can just do Tinder? Continue reading “Did Tinder ruin the daygame?”
Clubs/bars are my favorite places to pickup girls and get laid. I’ve had most of my lays via this way and have a lot of experience with this, so I know what to do.
Continue reading “How to pickup women at club/bar?”
Picking up, gaming, sarging; whatever term there is for it, I would like to post here some reasons why it’s a skill that can be learned and improved to get more women. Looks is of course an important aspect, I don’t buy the thing ‘looks don’t matter’ as some dating gurus say. But having a good and confident while picking up will get a lot better results. I haven’t used in ages a fake stories while picking up, but they work if done right. I myself only did these when I was starting whole game thing, later it was just natural game. Or it became my second nature.
Anyway, here are some things that are legit Continue reading “Why picking up girls is a skill and how to improve it”