This post is a chapter from eBook, where I'm going to explain detailed step by step method how to go from approaching to sex. Read more about eBook here.
It’s always the numbers game.
Women rarely takes an initiative as they already get approached by guys all the time. Either in real life or on social media, so they won’t bother to take an action. They won’t take the risk to get rejected.
So you need to take an action and approach. The more you approach, the more you have chances to get laid. You just need to be in the right place at right time. The probability of being there will raise the more you approach.
As I stated earlier on the rejection chapter, the rejection can be a result of so many things that won’t have anything to do with you, so the right place, the right time, is the case you want to get. She can have a bad day and hate all guys, even on good day she would like you. Right time would be on good day. You are not the fortune-teller and can’t know these kind of things, so you need to go out there, explore and find out what she wants.
The dating game is about finding the girls that are attracted and available to you at the moment.
The looks matter, as it opens the doors. You don’t need to be a male model though to get laid. All you need to be, is to be good looking enough for her standards, whatever she finds attractive. Usually an average looks is enough. She has probably already fucked an uglier guy than you. Women don’t like only one type of men, like men aren’t attracted to only one type of women. The two stereotypes I mentioned earlier on this book, the handsome and masculine ”bad boy”. If you are average looking, and can even slightly boost yourself to have a little ”bad boy” vibe, you are attractive enough for most women on looks scale. The rest is how you can handle and the other traits you have, and of course finding the right place and right time.
When you approach her, she either rejects you or approves you. Even if she is attracted to you, she may be a shy to take the things further. You as a Man have to be the leader and be responsible to escalate things further. If either of you aren’t taking things anywhere, she will reject/friend zone you and wait for someone to approach her who actually can be the leading one.
The more you get laid, the easier it gets to get laid. You give a more confident and less desperate vibe everytime you get laid.
The biggest mistake most guys do, is to not take an action. Most guys just wait and believe that one day they will find the love. They wait and wait, and nothing ever chances. They let their happiness being dependent of other factor’s and won’t themselves take the charge.
Be the guy who takes responsibility of your own happiness, go for your goals, and don’t let your happiness being dependent of other people actions. When you don’t need a social circle and can get what you want on your own, in this case women, you will be the boss of your own.