So here’s is the guide how you can build a hard core of inner confidence of not giving a f@#k about rejections and how to approach women confidently with no fear.
As you now know my background, I started this journey by going alone to bars. That put me really uncomfortable situations and wasn’t probably best way to start this. But the real improvement when I got completely rid of my approach anxiety happened after I started applying these drills in this method on daytime. Continue reading “How to build courage to approach women with zero fear and not caring about rejections – Complete Guide”
If you are like me, whose body can’t stand alcohol, the effort of going bars can be too big. However I used to go lot of bars by being sober, I still managed to find a ways to get girls besides bar scene or Tinder. I’m going through in this post ways you can meet girls if you cant drink alcohol.
Where to meet women if it’s not bars or clubs?
Continue reading “How to meet girls if you cant drink alcohol and go to bars or don’t want to use Tinder?”
This post is a chapter from eBook, where I'm going to explain detailed step by step method how to go from approaching to sex. Read more about eBook here.
It’s always the numbers game.
Women rarely takes an initiative as they already get approached by guys all the time. Either in real life or on social media, so they won’t bother to take an action. They won’t take the risk to get rejected.
So you need to take an action and approach. The more you approach, the more you have chances to get laid. You just need to be in the right place at right time. The probability of being there will raise the more you approach.
Continue reading “How the Dating Game works?”
The more F@#ks you give, the less Pussy you get
The quote above tells it all.
Desperation. This one trait that can easily ruin your chances even you got all the other traits good. Nothing is more turn off to women than extremely desperate man. This is the thing I talked about losing virginity to be the hardest lay one have to achieve, due the desperation of getting it done.
This is why guys who already have had a rich sex life are getting it easy. They have developed a mindset of not putting pussy on pedestal anymore after lots of experience. When you are not giving attention to women, she will chase you even more. Continue reading “Desperation, the Attraction Killer”
I wasted myself a lot of time for improving the game, without getting laid. I broke the approach anxiety, greatly improved my social skills and became smooth and playful around girls. Dominant, good bodylanguage. Overall outgoing and good interacting with women, but I was still struggling to get laid. I never did. I thought that I NEED to have a toptier game to get access on sex. Or after I had got my game there, I wouldn’t have to put anymore effort on this and will have girls drooling over me.
Also one reason that was stopping me was reading about pickup stuff and it’s complicated patterns that you should go dates before sex, I hadn’t Continue reading “Why you should aim for getting laid instead of improving a ‘game’”
UPDATE! This post is more detailed how to get over the fear of approaching. The original (this) is more like theory and my story of getting over it.
Gaining confidence is simple but not easy. You’ve probably already heard this, but it’s this kind of cycle: you do something -> you succeed -> you acquire bit of confidence -> you do it again with better result due to earlier gained confidence -> you succeed even more and get more confidence.
This is something that I remember was taught on school, but I never believed on that crap and applied it. Like giving a presentation in front of class, how would kid full of insecurity get a success by failing completely in front of class speaking with shaky voice, sweating and hands shaking like crazy. I never did. All it did just made it worse, failing made me more paranoid and insecure for next presentation. Continue reading “How to gain confidence and break the approach anxiety?”
How to Cold-Approach?
If you are not aware of the term cold approaching, it means approaching a girl you’ve never talked before and she hasn’t shown any sign of interest on you before. Warm approaching instead means approaching a girl you have had some connection before.
In this post we are going through how to effectively cold-approach a girl and possible get her back to your place for sex.
I myself started this all with cold approaching. It was before Tinder existed, so cold approaching was my way to go. Started on clubs and bars, afterwards went on streets and shopping malls. Clubs/bars are still the best place Continue reading “Complete Cold-approaching Guide”