How to get out of friendzone?

This is the situation you want to avoid at all cost.

Or let’s say, there are few types of friendzones:

The situation #1: You have known the girl years with no intend for anything sexual, just having her as buddy. Situation #2: You have known the girl years and you are interested in her in sexual manner, but she doesn’t feel the same. Situation #3: You have started dating a complete new girl you’ve never known before, example you picked her up on tinder. You’ve been on date and she says: “You are a very nice guy, but I think we should just be friends”. Continue reading “How to get out of friendzone?”

A girl doesn’t answer on my messages anymore. What to do? (How to deal with flakes)

You have successfully picked up a girl, got her phone number, texting her. Everything is going well, she’s into you and the future looks bright. Then suddenly she goes no contact. A full radio silence. She’s not answering anymore to your messages.

Sounds familiar?

In this post I’m going to go through how to deal when she is not answering anymore on you messages/phone calls, a flaking. Continue reading “A girl doesn’t answer on my messages anymore. What to do? (How to deal with flakes)”

The power of bodylanguage

Your demeanor says more about you than your words. If you are looking down, having a negative posture and looking like you are not relaxed, people can sense that you are not feeling comfortable. This can be seen on interactions, not only with women, but also with men.

When you have more open, relaxed body language, people are responding better for anything you do. By keeping your hands crossed and looking like you are protecting yourself the opponent you are talking with will think you are not on the mood or you are feeling uncomfortable to talk with him/her. Continue reading “The power of bodylanguage”

Complete Cold-approaching Guide

How to Cold-Approach?

If you are not aware of the term cold approaching, it means approaching a girl you’ve never talked before and she hasn’t shown any sign of interest on you before. Warm approaching instead means approaching a girl you have had some connection before.

In this post we are going through how to effectively cold-approach a girl and possible get her back to your place for sex.

I myself started this all with cold approaching. It was before Tinder existed, so cold approaching was my way to go. Started on clubs and bars, afterwards went on streets and shopping malls. Clubs/bars are still the best place Continue reading “Complete Cold-approaching Guide”

Picking up girls while sober or wasted?

At the beginning when I didn’t have idea how to pickup girls, I went on clubs binge drinking and getting wasted in hope of getting courage to talk to girls. Or that was the step 2, which I hardly or never acquired. The step 1 was to get girls approach me so I could go step 2. Even I was wasted and lowered my inhibitons via shitloads of booze, I hadn’t courage to approach girls.

After I killed my approach anxiety and started to go talk with girls, I was sober at the first. For long time. I avoided alcohol for health issues. Anyway, it was a good feeling of not needing alcohol and still going talking with girls smoothly and having fun with them. Continue reading “Picking up girls while sober or wasted?”

Why picking up girls is a skill and how to improve it

Picking up, gaming, sarging; whatever term there is for it, I would like to post here some reasons why it’s a skill that can be learned and improved to get more women. Looks is of course an important aspect, I don’t buy the thing ‘looks don’t matter’ as some dating gurus say. But having a good and confident while picking up will get a lot better results. I haven’t used in ages a fake stories while picking up, but they work if done right. I myself only did these when I was starting whole game thing, later it was just natural game. Or it became my second nature.

Anyway, here are some things that are legit Continue reading “Why picking up girls is a skill and how to improve it”

How to be playful and escalate on dates

If you have no idea what to do on dates, how to keep conversation flowing, how to go for kiss, maybe sex on the first date; here is complete guide how to do it.

I would like to share a quick story first about my experience to go for sex on first dates. It took me long time to figure out how to do this, but then it clicked. You can skip this story and go straight to the guide below this paragraph.

Quick story of getting laid on first date

So, I had picked up this girl’s phone number and set up date. When I arrived to the place we had settled (bus station), she was already there. I walked towards her and greet her:

Me: “Hello, nice to meet you”

Her: “Hello, you too!”

I hugged her and said: “You look good!”. She smiled and thank. I asked something like this:

Me: “You have any idea of good bars around here?”

She had idea. I took command and said her to lead us there. We walked to the bar hand in hand (The key is to make it physical as soon as possible, so she can be comfortable later for going make out). We had some small talk on the way to the bar, like asking how was her day went so far. I already acting playful at this moment and she was flirting back.

After we arrived to the bar, we ordered drinks and went to the table. It was a quiet bar. Not those loud nightclubs you can’t here anything. Btw, don’t ever arrange a first date (or any date) on these kinds of nightclubs, it’s a disaster from my experience.

Anyway, I sat close beside her. Having the playful attitude whole time. After about 15 minutes I went for kiss. She agreed. It escalated a more passionate making out. I brushed her hair and said something like: “I’m getting boner haha. You’are so hot”. She was getting horny too. Then I asked either we could go to her or mine place. She asked me to her place. We drank our drinks and left the bar, went on her place. Things went for sex immediately after we got there.

This story was not for bragging. It was one of the examples how to get laid on first date. Below are more detailed steps what to do, what to say and how to go for kiss.

Meeting her

If you got her phone number example on Tinder , and you have changed just a few words via texting, the first encounter when you meet at the date is important.  Go straight to her and hug, say something like “you look good”. Don’t handshake. Continue reading “How to be playful and escalate on dates”

Women wants random sex too

Girls don’t want a sex, they want dates, flowers and chocolate. That’s how the mainstream media makes it look like. I had this mindset also when I was inexperienced. Needles to say that I ended on friendzone. After realizing that girls also want random sex, no dating, no other extra bullshit. Just sex. I started to get a mindset that is required for having a success on dating.

Reasons why having a mindset that girls don’t want random sex is bad for success Continue reading “Women wants random sex too”

How to get a girlfriend?

This was my biggest dream on highschool. And unfortunately it didn’t happen there, only just very long time after that. I remember reading back then forums and such the same old story: If you wait a long enough, a  one day you’ll find the girl of your dreams. On it’s own way, it’s right. It’s just missing a one important point: If you wait long enough and put lot of effort, a one day you’ll find the girl of your dreams. I was hoping that some girl would come talk to me, ask me for date and continue from there to relationship.

You may read a lot of stories how couples have found each other. Usually it’s Continue reading “How to get a girlfriend?”