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So here’s is the guide how you can build a hard core of inner confidence of not giving a f@#k about rejections and how to approach women confidently with no fear.
As you now know my background, I started this journey by going alone to bars. That put me really uncomfortable situations and wasn’t probably best way to start this. But the real improvement when I got completely rid of my approach anxiety happened after I started applying these drills in this method on daytime. Continue reading “How to build courage to approach women with zero fear and not caring about rejections – Complete Guide”
When I was younger, I had much better body than I have now. I trained like beast back then, going to gym almost everyday and packing a good amount of mass while staying at pretty low fat percentage.
I had a great body, but I still got zero experience with girls.
Compared to nowadays when I’m not as good shape as I used to be, I’m complete opposite of I used to be when it goes to girls.
Back then I thought if I got a great body, girls would approach me and take an initiative. It never happened. And I got depressed about it, as I saw a many guys who never went to gym having girlfriends.
Continue reading “Why going to gym and getting good body alone won’t get you automatically girls?”
Social skill is a skill like playing guitar. It can be learned. It can be improved, which requires doing it again and again.
I’m not extrovert naturally myself. I’m not high energy guy always having a need to say something. I’m very calm. But the difference how I used to be, is not what I say, but how I behave. The tone of voice, body language, facial expressions. Even I’m not social butterfly and the center of the party, I’m not shy anymore. And it’s the first thing to get over to improve social skills.
Continue reading “13 Ways To Improve Your Social Skills”
The more F@#ks you give, the less Pussy you get
The quote above tells it all.
Desperation. This one trait that can easily ruin your chances even you got all the other traits good. Nothing is more turn off to women than extremely desperate man. This is the thing I talked about losing virginity to be the hardest lay one have to achieve, due the desperation of getting it done.
This is why guys who already have had a rich sex life are getting it easy. They have developed a mindset of not putting pussy on pedestal anymore after lots of experience. When you are not giving attention to women, she will chase you even more. Continue reading “Desperation, the Attraction Killer”
If you haven’t lost your virginity yet, read this.
When you have zero experience with women, you have minimal confidence due to lack of success/experience which reflects on your upcoming experiences. You can fake it till you make it, but the vibe of zero experience will appear subconsciously around women.
This is the hardest part you need to get over. For this point it’s huge uphill battle. After you make it, every lay will be easier to get afterwards. Actually lay after lay you get it easier. It’s like women’s sixth sense of knowing you are getting girls. Continue reading “Losing your virginity is the hardest lay you need to achieve”
UPDATE! This post is more detailed how to get over the fear of approaching. The original (this) is more like theory and my story of getting over it.
Gaining confidence is simple but not easy. You’ve probably already heard this, but it’s this kind of cycle: you do something -> you succeed -> you acquire bit of confidence -> you do it again with better result due to earlier gained confidence -> you succeed even more and get more confidence.
This is something that I remember was taught on school, but I never believed on that crap and applied it. Like giving a presentation in front of class, how would kid full of insecurity get a success by failing completely in front of class speaking with shaky voice, sweating and hands shaking like crazy. I never did. All it did just made it worse, failing made me more paranoid and insecure for next presentation. Continue reading “How to gain confidence and break the approach anxiety?”