If you have no idea what to do on dates, how to keep conversation flowing, how to go for kiss, maybe sex on the first date; here is complete guide how to do it.
I would like to share a quick story first about my experience to go for sex on first dates. It took me long time to figure out how to do this, but then it clicked. You can skip this story and go straight to the guide below this paragraph.
Quick story of getting laid on first date
So, I had picked up this girl’s phone number and set up date. When I arrived to the place we had settled (bus station), she was already there. I walked towards her and greet her:
Me: “Hello, nice to meet you”
Her: “Hello, you too!”
I hugged her and said: “You look good!”. She smiled and thank. I asked something like this:
Me: “You have any idea of good bars around here?”
She had idea. I took command and said her to lead us there. We walked to the bar hand in hand (The key is to make it physical as soon as possible, so she can be comfortable later for going make out). We had some small talk on the way to the bar, like asking how was her day went so far. I already acting playful at this moment and she was flirting back.
After we arrived to the bar, we ordered drinks and went to the table. It was a quiet bar. Not those loud nightclubs you can’t here anything. Btw, don’t ever arrange a first date (or any date) on these kinds of nightclubs, it’s a disaster from my experience.
Anyway, I sat close beside her. Having the playful attitude whole time. After about 15 minutes I went for kiss. She agreed. It escalated a more passionate making out. I brushed her hair and said something like: “I’m getting boner haha. You’are so hot”. She was getting horny too. Then I asked either we could go to her or mine place. She asked me to her place. We drank our drinks and left the bar, went on her place. Things went for sex immediately after we got there.
This story was not for bragging. It was one of the examples how to get laid on first date. Below are more detailed steps what to do, what to say and how to go for kiss.
If you got her phone number example on Tinder , and you have changed just a few words via texting, the first encounter when you meet at the date is important. Go straight to her and hug, say something like “you look good”. Don’t handshake. Continue reading “How to be playful and escalate on dates”